When I think of makeovers, I tend to associate that with the beginning of the year. A fresh start, a blank slate. But this year, spring is making me think of makeovers–the flowers are blooming again, the grass is getting greener, the days warmer and longer.
Now, what are you thinking about when I say makeover? I automatically think of a style change–new hair, new clothes, and new makeup. But what if a makeover encompasses many other things? What if you are wanting to make over your daily life? That’s what I’m working on this spring.
1. Food: I love to eat, and the fattier and sweeter the better!! I eat when I’m bored, when I’m stressed, when I’m happy, and when there is nothing better to do. And that has led me to be overweight. But, I’m doing something about it. I joined Weight Watchers 9 weeks ago and have lost almost 9 pounds. It’s not coming off fast, but it’s coming off.
2. Appearance: With my weight gain (I lost quite a bit after the twins were born, but regained it with unhealthy choices), I’ve become really dissatisfied with my appearance. My clothes no longer fit, and I don’t want to spend the money to buy clothes that do–you know, because I know I’m going to lose the weight. Well, obviously I am not losing 30 pounds overnight, so I’m going to head to Old Navy/Target/WalMart to find some cute things IN MY SIZE. Those stores are not going to break the bank and I know I will feel more comfortable.
And I’m really bad about not taking time out for me. Not fixing my hair (or getting regular cuts), not wearing makeup, not fixing myself up. But that is changing too. I’m getting a haircut soon (after almost a year) and am thinking about taking the plunge with hair color. Think I can pull off the Anna look?
(Answer is no.)
3. Attitude: I posted here about feeling overwhelmed with three kids. It’s getting better, but it can sometimes still be a struggle for me. The warmer weather is making it easier to get out. Trips to the zoo have been really nice. And the outside play is making for great naps, which gives me a chance to recharge before the afternoon insanity.
4. Social Media: This is a big thing for me. I love social media–Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest–I’m on them all. I’ve made some really great friends through the internet, some I’ve even met IRL (in real life). But there are lots of negatives to social media too. Comparison, like Sarah talks about here, is something that I have a hard time with. It’s hard for me to remember that people are posting the best snapshots of their life, not always the most authentic. And Facebook–don’t even get me started about things I see on there. I’ve decided to take a break, to clear my head of all the negatives and then (possibly) start back fresh.
And I’m doing one more thing this spring. I’m leaving the Knoxville Moms Blog. This is my last post. It’s been an amazing 13 months connecting with you, meeting you at events, and hearing your stories. But right now, this Mama is needing a makeover in all aspects of my life–to focus on taking care of myself and my children.
Are you also a mom in need of a makeover somewhere in your life? You don’t have to wait until January 1st, you can do it now!
Katie,
I love your authenticity in this post. Life really is too great to let comparisons own your thinking. I think we all struggle with this. I am excited to see your new cut and potential color! And I would love to do a fun Goodwill trip with you for some affordable new looks!
Keep up the great work with weight watchers. One step at a time is so much easier than “I have to lose this much.”
I have loved getting to know you. And I am thankful to have you in a slightly different capacity on our KMB team.
Meghan
I’ll miss your posts, but this decision sounds like a wise one. When you have multiple children you have to start making choices about the precious little time you have to yourself. I find myself gravitating towards the internet and unhealthy food choices as well, because frankly, at the end of the day I just don’t have the energy for anything more. Your courage and sincerity are admired. Congratulations on the weight loss! And whenever you come back to FB be sure to post a pic of your makeover. (personally I’ve always thought of you as Snow White rather than Ana- with your lovely fair skin and your ebony hair 🙂 All good thoughts to you!!