The Myth of the Perfect Mom

Everyday I end the day thinking I should have done more.

I should have done more crafts with my child.

I should have worked on letters, words, and reading skills more.

I should have made sure they ate more veggies.

I should have played more.

As moms, we put so much pressure on ourselves. The “mom guilt” is a serious burden that all moms carry. But what is a perfect mom and how does one mom define it? Do these statements define the “perfect mom”?

I’m a perfect mom because I did extended breastfeeding.

I’m a perfect mom because I did three hours of Pinterest crafts with my child.

I’m a perfect mom because my children don’t eat any processed food.

I’m a perfect mom because my children go to daycare and get socialization and structure.

I’m a perfect mom because I stay home with my children.

I’m a perfect mom because my children watch no TV.

I’m a perfect mom because I use cloth diapers.

I’m a perfect mom because my children sleep through the night.

I’m a perfect mom because my children are signed up for every activity.

Maybe it’s the existence of social media and seeing what moms are up to ALL.DAY.LONG or in reality what they want you to see.

But you know what…there is no such thing as a perfect mom. Motherhood is messy and full of tears and laughter and many highs and lows. Your children don’t care about those above statements. All they care about is YOU!

You are a great mom because you kiss and hug your children good night.

You are a great mom because you make the boo-boos all better.

You are a great mom because you provide meals for your children.

You are a great mom because you are always there to support and encourage your children.

You are a great mom because you hope and dream for your children.

You are a great mom because you bring smiles and laughter to your children’s face.

You are a great mom because no one loves them like you do. 

That’s right moms, NO ONE loves your children like you do and that above all is what matters most.